Whoever said dating is fun?
This is work. It is hard making a good, lasting first impression. Choosing what to wear, fretting about how you look, what you will say, will you kiss, does he think I am funny, does he think I am funny looking, am I flirting? Is he flirting? Am I talking too much about myself? Do I look like I am really interested in what he is saying? It is all so draining.
And then you go through that whole roller coaster and he doesn't call you back.
And then you question your self-worth. Why doesn't he like me? Am I not pretty enough? Not skinny enough? Where did I go wrong? What is wrong with me?
This is not good for the self-confidence, I tell you.